Do you struggle to communicate clearly and advocate for yourself or explain solutions in ways that actually get heard?

Do you think knowing the “right” thing to say would help you close more deals, sign more clients and build better relationships?

Are you too reactionary in conversations, costing you the promotions, bonuses, and recognition you deserve?

Do you avoid or freeze during conflict, wishing you could handle it confidently without getting walked all over?

Does pressure make you freeze or stumble, leaving you unable to make your points when it matters most?

Do you let people take advantage of you because you can’t advocate for yourself or articulate your value?

Do you put off difficult conversations, allowing small issues to grow into bigger problems?

Well, my friend you have made it to the right place.

Here’s the thing:

Clear, emotionally intelligent communication creates safe, productive workplaces.

The Diplomat’s Toolkit will help you figure out what to say, how to say it, and communicate it clearly so you can get results. 

You’ll learn how to say what you need to say to get your point across and create an environment where the other person can hear you. 

Most communication courses focus on 1 specific skill, like public speaking and leave you to fill in the rest of the pieces on your own without clear guidance…

The Diplomat’s Toolkit teaches you the foundational skills necessary for successful communication with anyone, anytime, anywhere. 

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Is The Diplomat’s Toolkit for you?

1. Are you new to the workforce, or starting in a new company or industry?

These are the building blocks and foundational tools you need to set you up for communication success in any industry, niche, or new endeavor. 

2. Are you often told your ideas are great, but if you “adjusted your tone” or changed people might be more receptive?

We’re not  tone policing anyone here. But what I am doing is sharing tools you can use to help you get your point across and be heard regardless of who you’re dealing with.  

3. Do you just want to improve your communication so you can get your point across, regardless of the situation or who you’re dealing with?

I’ll show you four key skills, along with templates, reflection questions, and practice scenarios to help you do exactly that. 

Hi, I’m Judnefera Rasayon

I am a former U.S. diplomat, former Kindergarten teacher and communication coach. I’m fluent in French and can greet anyone in Korean, Spanish and Arabic.

When it comes to diplomacy and communication I’ve had a: 

  • • 15+ year career including time in government where I was the U.S. State Department’s point person for King Mohammed VI of Morocco’s visit with President Obama in 2013;

  • • I served Staff Aide to the U.S. Ambassador to South Korea during the G20; 

  • • Negotiated on behalf of the United States at United Nations global health governing body meetings and at the World Health Organization (WHO);

  • • Interviewed over 2,000 visa and asylum applicants; and 

  • • Taught 25 Kindergartners at a charter school.

And I’m here to provide you with a roadmap to effective communication that you can follow.

So many people struggling with communication face one (or more) of these problems…

• Unclear communication

• Saying the wrong thing and putting your foot in your mouth

• Being reactionary

• Not knowing how to handle conflict

• Freezing and an inability to communicate under pressure

• Struggling to build rapport

• Difficulty advocating for yourself

• Avoiding difficult conversations

• Trouble disagreeing respectfully

• Not picking up on verbal and nonverbal cues

And in The Diplomat’s Toolkit I show you how to overcome all of these.

So many people believe that successful communication is this natural skill and art that people are just born with. 

And to a certain extent that’s true. 

Some people are born with it. 

The gift of gab. 

That ability to make anyone feel instantly comfortable and at ease and start telling them their whole life story. 

I’ve been told this is true for me.

But the thing is…

You can learn how to communicate better. To put people at ease. To have conversations that flow more naturally and aren’t stilted or awkward. 

It is possible. 

But people have a lot of theories about why their communication isn’t working. 

And once we get to talking I realize that a lot of their theories are wrong, and they’re making mistakes they didn’t even know they were making.

And one that happens all the time that most people don’t even realize is that…

People don’t listen.

The biggest mistake people make when trying to figure out how to be a better communicator? 

Not listening. 

So many people focus on what it is they want to say, or the point they want to get across. 

But the thing is—you need to listen first. It’s simple, but sometimes it’s the hardest thing to do. 

Letting someone finish a thought and not interrupting them. 

Listening to what someone is saying, really listening, before offering a response or an answer. 

And another thing that happens is….

People avoid conflict.

The second biggest mistake people make? 

Avoiding conflict. 

They think if they just figure how best to keep the peace and smooth things over then they’ve been successful. 

But the thing is, conflict itself isn’t the problem—avoiding conflict is. 

Trying to keep the peace and smoothing things over by not actually addressing issues doesn’t work in the long run. 

Because the issue doesn’t go away or get resolved if you never address it. 

And if you're being honest with yourself and others (which is a key part of successful communication) you won't always agree and then there will be friction and conflict. 

And that's okay. 

It's how you navigate and address the conflict that matters.

And finally…

People aren’t honest.

The third The third biggest mistake people make trying to become better communicators? 

They’re not honest.

They are focusing on how to say the thing, without first examining what it is they want or need to say. 

Self-awareness is key for successful communication.

Now, how you say things absolutely does matter. 

But it doesn’t matter how well you say the thing if it’s not what you actually want or need to say. 

If you’re not being honest about it. 

So figuring out what you’re feeling and why you’re feeling that way is crucial. 

That way you can say what needs to be said, however it needs to be said. 

And the thing is…

You don’t have to keep making these mistakes. 

You can communicate clearly and confidently and get your point across successfully. 

I’ve done it in a room full of 25 Kindergartners. And I’ve done it in a room full of diplomats. 

The concepts aren’t difficult.

But it does take work. And effort. And you have to be very intentional. 

I have taken what I’ve learned in the last 15+ years of having difficult conversations with people of all ages and from all walks of life.

And I put all the basics into this course.

Welcome to:

The Diplomat’s Toolkit

An introduction to four key skills that you need to communicate more effectively.

You can tailor what you say and how you say it to best fit the situation that you’re in. 

These skills build on each other so you’re getting a comprehensive overview of what every single diplomat uses to be an effective leader and communicator. 

Communicating diplomatically will save you time, energy and money -- and it'll also make your relationships better. 

You could get hours back in your day by:

  • • not talking past other people,

    • effectively reading the rooms that you’re in,

  • • picking up on verbal and nonverbal cues,

  • • and then choosing the most appropriate responses. 

Each module contains video + workbook lessons. 

Here’s what you’ll find inside each one:

The Trainings

INTRODUCTION: WHY THIS MATTERS + PRE-WORK

Inside the introduction you’ll find information on why effective, diplomatic communication matters. I know it does, but I’ve included statistics so that you know how much it does too.

You’ll find stats on:

  • the importance of emotional intelligence and soft skills in the workplace,

  • the amount of time typically spent dealing with conflict in the workplace,

  • and how emotional intelligence affects a team’s success rate. 

You’ll also receive a mini self-assessment to help you figure out where you stand at the beginning of the course.

(Videos: 27 minutes)

MODULE 1: ACTIVE LISTENING

This module gives you a framework for how to listen. Not bide your time until it’s time for you to speak. But actually listen. It shows you how to listen to understand, and how to use Active Listening to increase trust and clarity in your communication.

You’ll get:

  • A checklist to help you practice active listening 

  • A list of common traps people fall into 

  • And 3 different Practice Scenarios

 (Videos: 33 minutes)

MODULE 2: EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE

What is emotional intelligence? It’s not just a buzzword. You’ll get a definition, a breakdown of the four domains that make up emotional intelligence, and you’ll learn how to demonstrate knowledge of emotional intelligence principles by regulating your own emotions and reading the room in a variety of situations. 

The module explores how self-awareness, self-management,  social awareness, and relationship management affect your ability to successfully communicate. 

You’ll get:

  • A definition of emotional intelligence 

  • A roadmap to help you regulate your emotions 

  • 3 Practice Scenarios to help you explore how you would respond to various scenarios

 (Videos: 31 minutes)

MODULE 3: NAVIGATING CONFLICT

In the Navigating Conflict module you’ll learn how to successfully reduce tension, de-escalate situations, and navigate conflict effectively, so you don’t ostrich and put your head in the sand to try and avoid it altogether. 

You’ll get:

  • A crash course on why conflict isn’t actually a problem

  • A 4-part framework for how to handle conflict

  • 3 Practice Scenarios to help you determine how you’d use the framework to respond to conflicts in your workplace 

(Videos: 23 minutes) 

MODULE 4: PERSUASION UNDER PRESSURE

Sometimes we freeze and can’t put two words together when the stakes are high. Or we might get long-winded. Whatever the case is for you inside the Persuasion under Pressure module you’ll get access to a framework to help you remain calm in high-stakes environments and deliver concise, aligned messages under pressure.

You’ll get: 

  • A 3-part framework for how to remain calm in high stakes situations

  • A mini-self assessment to identify how you currently react and what you can do to improve how communicate under pressure 

  • 3 Practice Scenarios to help you determine how you’d use the framework to persuade others while you’re under pressure 

(Videos: 17 minutes) 

MODULES 5 AND 6: CONCLUSION + PERSONAL ACTION PLAN

In these concluding modules you’ll put everything together that you learned in the course and you’ll create your own: 

  • Personal Action Plan to identify how you’re going to use the information you learned in this course and implement in the next few weeks. 

(Videos: 9 minutes)

Bonus

A comprehensive assessment of where you stand in four key areas of emotional intelligence:

  • • self-awareness

  • • self-control

  • • flexibility and adaptability, and

  • • empathy.

Dive deeper into the areas where you’re already excelling and what areas you might need to work on.

Soft Skills Assessment

Bonus

Ever wanted help on how to prepare for a difficult conversation? Or a framework for how to argue without it devolving into a shouting match? I’ve created 3 different checklists to help you improve your communication. You’ll get to:

  • • How to Prepare for Difficult Conversations, DO’s and DONT’s

  • • How to Argue; and 

  • • Increase Your Empathy for Better Communication

3 Communication Checklists

The Details

The Diplomat’s Toolkit experience includes:

Introduction + Pre-Work (Value: $100) 

Module 1:Active Listening (Value: $250) 

Module 2:Emotional Intelligence (Value: $350) 

Module 3:Navigating Conflict (Value: $350)

Module 4: Persuasion Under Pressure (Value: $250) 

Module 5:Conclusion + Personal Action Plan (Value: $100) 

Bonus: Soft Skills Assessment (Value: $150) 

Bonus: 3 Communication Checklists (Value: $50)

The Diplomat’s Toolkit is your blueprint for how to say the right thing, every single time.

Upon enrollment, you will receive access to all the course content (videos + workbook).

You have all content + updates for life for $333. 

I love this training. If you want to improve your communication, it would be an honor to have you.

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Ready to become a more diplomatic communicator?

Saying the right thing at the right time can be hard. While it might come more naturally to some than others—it is a skill and an art that can be learned. 

You can start right here with this Toolkit. 

Improving your communication has the potential to:

Save You Time: with more efficient negotiations, fewer arguments and getting to “yes” and win-win agreements faster. 

Save You Money: no more chasing after clients who’ve told you “no” in a million different ways without actually saying the words, because now you can recognize the non-verbal cues and read the room. 

Make You Money & Improve Your Relationships: because you can successfully advocate for yourself, navigate difficult conversations with ease, and listen to what others are saying so you know what to say in order to close deals, sign clients, build rapport, and get that promotion.

Yes, I'm ready

FAQ

  • The Diplomat’s Toolkit is 100% self-paced!

    As soon as you join, you will gain instant access to the modules including all of the resources mentioned above.

    And you will have access to all of them forever. So you can work your way through these as quickly or as leisurely as you want.

  • After clicking on the button below and submitting your order, you will receive an email with instructions for how to set up your access.

  • Nope! All The Diplomat’s Toolkit modules come together in a "bundle," and I don't sell them separately.

    My goal is to give you an entire blueprint that allows you to acquire all the foundational skills you need to become a more diplomatic communicator.

  • It is up to you when you start. Once the modules are unlocked, you have the content and any future updates for life. Then, you can take the course completely at your own pace. You can come back to the modules anytime you need.

  • Well... maybe. And you can absolutely try it! Because if it works for you, great!
    But chances are, you've tried learning all these skills on your own before. And between the hours it would take you to aggregate all of the free stuff and the headaches you would have figuring things out on your own...

    I think $333 is well worth it.

  • Forever! As soon as you join you will gain instant access to the modules + workbook. And you will have access to all them forever. So you can work your way through these as quickly or as leisurely as you want.

  • YES! You will find the payment options by clicking the enrollment button at the bottom of this page

  • I want to ensure that you have a chance to review my teaching style. So, if after reviewing the initial content you feel this is not for you, please email us at info@judneferarasayoncoaching.com‍ within 48 hours of your purchase and we will process your refund

  • The Diplomat’s Toolkit is perfect for you. Inside, you'll find the frameworks you need to finally get started the right way. And if you take action, you will learn in a few weeks what takes some people months, if not years, to learn.

  • Yup—in fact, you might be at an advantage. Why? Because if you’ve already  started working on your communication, there’s a high likelihood that you’ve worked on the first skill that I teach in The Diplomat’s Toolkit: Active Listening.


    And that will allow you to dive into all the other skills (and start seeing results) much faster.

  • Strategies, steps, and processes laid out for you. Progress. New ways of thinking about communication. Solutions. Clarity. Fresh perspective.

    Reflection prompts. Practice scenarios. Movement towards the type of communication you want to engage in. And whatever else you decide to get out of it.

  • I love this program and I deeply believe in the principles in it. According to my attorney, I need to make sure I always say this to you: DISCLAIMER: I don't guarantee or warrant results or increased income.

See you on the inside!

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I can't wait for you to get your hands on this content so you can start practicing and using it in your daily life.

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If you are enrolling now, I encourage you to do so intentionally. Do this for you. Do this for those you are here to help. Do this on purpose.

Refund Policy: I want to ensure that you have a chance to review my teaching style. So, if after reviewing the initial content, you feel this is not for you, please email us at info@judneferarasayoncoaching.com within 48 hours of your purchase and we will process your refund.

Disclaimer: I love this program and I believe in the principles in it. According to my attorney, I need to make sure I always say this to you: I don't guarantee or warrant results or increased income.